Tag: accountability

  • Dabbling

    The risk when taking on any new project is that it might all too quickly become another notch on one’s chalkboard of failed projects. The risk of dabbling is ultimately boredom and moving on to something else new.

    But how does one stop dabbling and start honing and refining—especially if one is inclined to be more of a dabbler than a deep diver.

    I admit, I am a bit of a shiny object guy when it comes to my hobbies. I see something new and interesting and I d dive deeply into it for a while—that is, usually, until I’ve learned enough about said shiny object that learning about it becomes less interesting than it was at the beginning. And then often, said shiny object goes on the shelf, forgotten. Dabbling done.

    To fight through and beyond the honeymoon period for any new project my tactic has generally been to use goals or public accountability or external commitments. It’s neither complex nor especially obscure. Signing up for a language class or telling everyone your running goal race or planning a trip to sketch in another country are examples of great counter-dabbling tools.

    These sorts of external motivators create a kind of reward system to overcome the raw dopamine drop when the innate rewards of dabbling fade.